Job Career Troubles (FiveArts)

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A simple application of feng shui, for now till 3 feb 2019; at SW and NW sector of your room / house place a air purifier (water type) or diffuser for aroma or water feature like fish tank, biorb or small plant. If you have a singing bowl, you can use that to activate the energy in that sector. Or, a portable player to play the sound for singing bowl (youtube/ mp3) or some form of gentle music in the SW and NW sector.

Where you are in or perhaps the company you work for in this industry isn’t making the capital expenditure to bring in the revenue or market share. On internal side, looks like argument between people in your team, politicking as well as gossip. From the chart, look like your departure is a preemptive step to take.  On the eastern side of where you are now. Is there any district, full of buzz and bright lights. As well as nice garden or parks, with streams? Any opportunity for you to join a larger size firm or even be a consultant, trainer or open up the markets in that district / area  ?  From my qmdj chart, you are indeed a talent in this field. Just that the situation is a bit for headwind for you and that some adjustment like shifting ur role in same industry might be necessary for your growth as well.

Humbly asking people to help read the chart (FiveArts)

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年  月  日  时
庚  丙  庚  丙
申  戌  申  戌

02 乙酉
12 甲申
22 癸未
32 壬午
42 辛巳
52 庚辰

金:旺(旺极)
水:弱(暗)
木:無
火:中  (偏弱)
土:中

Your day-master is 庚 (geng) metal; common traits associate with this day master is intellectual, scholarly, noble and uphold high ethical/ moral standard. Strives honor, fairness and chivalry. Dependable; always ready to help their friends. Always to take a stand for justice, trusting and trustworthy. Great memory, focus and see big picture.  Commanding, very directive, very instructive and blunt with words can give other a bad rub. On the negative side, could be seen as inflexible, impatient, unable to keep your cool. Overlook details and doesn’t like to make mistake. You take it hard, as personal failure. Without pressure, can become lazy. Have difficulty setting long term goals yet execution is your strength.

It is likely you are a S Personality Type (DiSC); which is known for being steady, stable, and predictable. Theoretically, even-tempered (may not be always, because metal is overly strong), friendly, sympathetic with others (align with your chivalry) , and very generous with loved ones. The S is understanding and listens well. Contemplate, Preferring close, personal relationships, the S is very opened with loved ones, but can also be possessive at times and hold them close. Strive for positive environments and relationships and can be especially sensitive when it comes to criticism. Constantly, trying to please others, therefore may have a difficult time saying no or establishing priorities. Will try to avoid conflict and exist in peaceful environments and around groups that are at harmony, enjoy recognize for loyalty and dependability.  The 7K in your chart, conflict signal. while you are predictable, sometimes, the part of you may blown out of portion (i.e quick tempered) when trigger.  You yearn control, You missed details. Want quick results.

Next, you see you chart is pure yang. This relates to being direct, blunt and unable to really scheme against someone. Down inside the real you is simple and gentle. Why gentle, because your Bing Fire is at tomb phrase. unable to really control your strong metal, neither does it have the strength (natal) to aggravate it. However, this may not be the case in 2016 and 2017. (2016 丙申 , 2017 丁酉) – In this 2 years, somewhat kind of some internal struggle inside you mind/ heart (friends, suddenly turn foes, became hostile towards you). There is also mounting pressure from business/ work or social environment, so gossip, displease – 不顺心 are external signs. Internally would result in health (respiratory and stomach related)  or common woman ailments or family members being unwell.

Lets take a look the current 2 decade:
22 癸未 – Gui water is yin. It has a gentle control over the 7K. making the effect benign. Therefore, in during age 22, good chance of venturing out or starting business (solo). Entrepreneur etc. Or, gain mastery in certain skills set / professionally. Replication of success factor or branch out business is the keyword to success. If married, i suppose would be 2007 丁亥 or 2008 戊子 / during spring season.

32 壬午 – Ren water is yang nature. Therefore a more aggressive push vs your last decade. You should be using your network if you are in business or to seek career advancement. Unlike the early decade, horse fire adds energy to your strong earth making you prone to ailments.

2018 戊戌 – this year overall, not so smooth. list down in months for you to take note.  The key note is parents health / relationship matters. If have kids, would be kids safety matters. And, personal health ailments. Tummy / gynecology related.

2018 Feb 甲寅 –
2018 Mar 乙卯 –  Feb and March are ok for change in careers or if you are in business to solidify some process that generate revenue. As the overall is less auspicious, avoid over invest or expansion. If in career, boss praise you, say its everyone effort, take only small bit of credit, try to avoid pressurized projects and task. That may negate effect on health and well being.
2018 Apr 丙辰 –
2018 May 丁巳 – Direct officer and 7K is quite strong in this 2 month. If single, got chance to encounter your significant other.
2018 June 戊午 – If have kids, remember to act safety for long distance trips.
2018 July 己未- Possibly health ailment acts up.
2018 Aug 庚申 –
2018 Sep 辛酉 – Aug/ Sep, to avoid argument. Your metal energy overdose, you may act irrationally.
2018 Oct 壬戌 –
2018 Nov 癸亥 – Can be quite good. skills get recognize and turn into revenue. good to have your metal energy exhausted into water. And, pig water has wood, represent wealth star.
2018 Dec 甲子 –
2019 Jan 乙丑 –

Recommendation:
For personal stones, you can consider Lapis (blue) for pendant and Jade (green) ring for accessories. For water and wood energy.

This are your 4 favourable personal direction.
Life Generating :   北 N (Avoid for 2018)
Heavenly Doctor: 南 S
Longevity : 東 E (Avoid for 2018)
Stability : 東南 SE

If possible, and have religion, you should do activities with religion such as prayers, seek to open wisdom (water), and helping out/ give alms in places such as temple / church (wood).  As you can see, the useful direction using your personal kua is hit by negative flying star (annual star) this year. And, tai sui, 戊戌 over empower your chart making it hard and dry (i.e. stubborn) and prone to illness and ailments. Hopefully, it can improve merits and reduce karma, in turn reduce the effect of 2018.

This is a challenging chart. And, this is my 2 cent worth. Hope it help you understand better. Kindly help me by verifying my analysis.

Thank you.

QMDJ Analysis (FiveArts)

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your palace sits the following stars and deity. White tiger, Jing Door, Tian Yin Star @ Fire Palace + Fu Yin.  From what I understand, this is not a very auspicious combination. Tiger represent skillful and technical inclination, aggressive and drive. But also means surrounded by gossips, tale telling, fighting, quarrels. Based on 12 phrases, ling guan @ Wu, di wang @ Si. What this means, is that your are now at your peak, and next is declining. You next palace is in Xun 4 palace, in there sits, travel horse, hiding door and tian fu star. Good if you seek temporal get away, and develop your skills and learning for next job role. At that palace, you crash with Gen 8 palace what denote wealth and career. Zhi Fu at Kan 1 palace. In there has a ‘robber’. Add these sign together, career is shaky. job prospect is decline phrase, clouded by gossip attacking. What you can do about it is reskill, relearn and retask.  Jin door in your palace is a good star. so, there is a silver lining among all. Governing knowledge and skills, hope and confidence.

So, how to make use of this information. Xun 4 palace is bad. although the stars are ok. At that phrase, it hurts ur career and wealth on the whole. So, now, you jing door and tian yin star in your current palace grows gen 8 palace, career / wealth. In another words. Now is the time for you to start looking for job and prospects. To answer your question. not only ur colleague will give u problems. Your boss and superior as well. There is clash between ur palace and zhi fu and it affect ur wealth star (so, appraisal could be affected since we are in end of 2017).

Rest more, take more fluid, your palace all hot stars. ur blood, skin, eyes and headaches ailments could act up during. Because, of the tiger deity in palace, could denote ops and wound. So, the more you need to exercise cautious and rest more.

On bazi perspective (quick glance), 8 char, you got more than 4 in earth. nxt year 2018 would be 2 more earth into play, this definitely give similar sign to the QM chart. sickness and ailment + fu yin (lethargic).  That means, jie cai will be strong. Don’t play risky investment. go for regular savings plan. Annual flying stars, to avoid North and West sector which could risk triggering the negative impact of ur bazi.

what is my element strong or weak BAZI (FiveArts)

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Thanks j27945

j27945 overall your reading is true, midchild, inherit, supportive, middle income etc. reason of the topic is because lately the business is kindda stagnant.  friend of the family starting talking about this bazi reading.  he said im a weak yang water person, my wealth element is fire, im favor water n metal, im unfav earth wood n fire. because of that cake which is earth and fire elemen, consider not for me. like u said if still want to run the cake shop, leave the baking an manage the money.

A lot of water – what does it mean? (FiveArts)

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Wood and fire is weak in his chart. He has jandice when he was a baby ?  Kid is closer to his mum, the mum does all the teaching and disciplinary work, she wears both hats. His natal father element looks weak. His natal father is either weak in health or has left the household. As for the kid. His eyesights, Heart, Liver and blood matters seem to be on the weak side.  Prone to have jaw, teeth, throat ailment. 

2021 丁丑, accident prone year on arms/ fingers & lower limbs. avoid holidays or adventurous activity if possible. 

Loyal. Courageous. Kindhearted and Dignified individual. Make friends easily, enjoy freedom. This are positive yang attributes but with a negative yin side – may mixed with wrong clicks and gets into trouble in childhood. take note of year 2028 (戊 申) & 2029 (己酉) easily to get into trouble with teachers or disciplinary laws. Matters & cue you should start to look for disgrant & unhappiness in his social relationship in 2027 (丁未). 

2027 (丁未) , there is a 戌未, punishment and a 子未.  Event in this year is not a bad one. It likely one of his friend would get into trouble while he is saved. But as he is dignified and loyal person, he may feel negative about it. So, just that as parents, need to explain the ‘what if’ to help him understand and grow into adulthood. 

If 2027 is done nicely, 2028 & 2029 would have lesser of a headache. You understand what I meant, don’t you ?

Remedy, I’m using BAZI, so its a chinese culture I’m embracing. We all want our kids to be dragon. First, we have to train them like horse. Teach them the grounds. They will fly when their time comes. 

Using wood. if there is any community, charity or church / temple / old folk nursing home in your neighbourhood. Bring him and does the charity together. Xmas is coming, many things to do which you can involve his little hands to help out. Help those in need, give thanks.  Educate him, first in areas of religion, give him a moral compass he can rely on. 

His nobleman, intelligence star & blossom are in EAST section under the zodia sign Tiger & Rabbit.  If he needs a room or study desk, use this sector.  East is also wood. Which he needs. And works hand in hand with the community / charity / religion learning which are wood nature activity.

 

Thanks for your tips! That is what I would like to gather into my BaZi understanding, so that learn and find,for instance  – which physical (real) acts represents what element and could bring support to weak element in chart. In this case, the boy enjoys outdoor activity surrounded by trees 😉

j27945 -Thank you once again!

Request for a Bazi reading please (FiveArts)

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You are a strong earth daymaster, possibly middle child in your family. enjoy close relationship with your mum. Socially, with a wide network of friends and colleagues. you have a firey  persona during this luck pillar, can be quite stubborn … determined to sound positive, lucky thing is your friends hold you back and kept your cool. your chart tell me you are pure yin. people that are pure yin usually have hidden agenda (i.e. plan B …. plan C ) and can influence to get other people do certain things for you.

Health wise, you need to hydrate yourself in your busy schedule as there is a battle between wood vs earth. prone to stomach issue and gastric.  And do keep a eye on your vitamin A or  over-the-counter medications intake as well as Fatty foods (saturated fats) and salt, this is to take care of your liver (of cos, alcohol). There is no harsh metal in your chart, so accidents risk is rather remote.

Socially, indirect resource meets competitive / friend star. you may not be aware, i think you might enjoy some form of community work, ie. help out a church or some social organization in your city /town. you probably can develop future business idea from there as well. 26yo till 45yo you are on wealth luck cycle, good for wealth accmulation. its also good more marriage. 2004/ 2005 – you met your hubby or got married (2014 / 2015 – would be late marriage) ~ I need your help to verify this (I’m only a novice – also learning ^ ^).

your role a proj mgr suits you. I believe in corrdinating projects, and analysis of data. you have a good resouce star to support and a competitive star or friends in your chart to help you out. you need to manage and maintian this good relationship with them. the down side of this competitive or friends star/ element in your chart may represent mingle and party that might be unable to avoid. moreover, you are strong earth with wood. no worries – you can hold your liquour well.  And, I think you have just the right amount of control, 2 usable wood element in your chart. as authority, in work I think you can do well handling regulatory reporting / documentaiton as well as managing your superior quite well.

although you say you are not a managerial, the prospect of landing in a promotion next year is favourable, i believe you should be earning quite well in this role. cos, authority is useful, no wealth is show in chart along with stong friends and resource element. means your wealth is well kept.  moving forward, you are asking about retirement. if you are looking at a retirement policy (annunity) you may go ahead and take up one. if you are looking at  opening a business venture, i prefer you go solo and if possible when you are 46yo. If partnerships is must, please draw up a legal agreement to make it binding. And, instead of those that require hard assets where it involves plants and equipments or keep inventory stock, i prefer you not to. instead consider those that require intellectual assets and your managerial skills / network (i.e.  maybe consultant in project management).

I believe you are settled down. In case, you are looking for an apartment or a location for your business in future, try to consider a study room / bed room / office around the following facing.

Intelligence Star (West, rooster)
Nobleman (West, monkey)
Life Generating (South West)
Heavely Doc (North West)
Longevity (West)

This is just my 2cent worth. Hope it helps ^ ^

 

Hello Jovan
thank you!!! really appreciate this. 

to let you know….you are 100% correct, i do have a firey persona and I am stubborn 
 i do always have a plan a or plan b, if i do not have it, i can easily create one  and i can charm people to help me out 

for my health, i tend to forget to drink water if i am busy. i am not fond of alcohol, but i am fond of food 

as for marriage, yes, i got married 2015 – you got that correct

i am applying for a job that would be in the same type of work that i have but better pay. hopefully, that job will pave the way for the promotion you mentioned for next year 
  i find that i like a job that requires coordination and managing things

appreciate the tips you have given me regarding future business ventures as well as regarding business agreements 

again, thank you! 

Turmoil year (FiveArts)

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@j27945  Your message serves a wake up call for me to let go and look forward.  Thank you so much as I meditated over your comments. Mention of karma resonates so much as this year feels extremely karmic (in a bad way).

Yes, am slowly coming to terms with my feelings, changes and challenges.  Life feels empty not only without him, but also without good friends and joyful gatherings.  Am looking forward to moving on.  No, I’m not religious but am a person of faith as a spiritual seeker.  Would love to meet a man of similar values be it spiritual or religious.  More importantly now is not just a person of faith but a faithful person to me.

Am unsure how to build karma if I’m broke, and it seems like I’m already over-repaying debts from past lives this year.

Looking to see if she is the one for me (FiveArts)

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May 27 1976
Smooth chi flow in the chart does suggest that you are a gentle and kind person, slow to anger. Orderly and neat. yet at the same time 7K in chart also give an aura not to mess around with you. You didn’t indicate your profession, I’m thinking you are a business owner if not of white color professional, architects, doctor, manager category. because of the 7K and wealth in your chart.

Younger years, you work hard, environment around you was harsh, parents are supportive but strict as resources around you are limited. You probably earn your education overseas. Things begin to work better for you when you are 23 onwards. if it works well, i suppose you continue to upgrade yourself while you work.

lady luck has always been with you. either your no one catches your attention or you are prob focusing on work to make money.

water in your chart is a bit weak and chart lack metal, you don’t take much water when you work do you or do you overwork ?  do take care of youself, particular in these areas. shoulder, heart and blood circulation and rest. bladder, kidney, marrow and soft tissue as well as scrotum and lower limps.

did you meet her in 2011 ? … Although, I think it’s 2011, (yet)  well..  2012 / 2013. is also possible years you got to know her. And likely because of work.

January 28 1977
Attractive lady, demure and slim, well maintained. Had as much as her chart indicate balance, she is in a number of relationship. Got those relationship that is openly declared as couple or married yet same time an under table ones. She possibly enjoys the under table relationship because her man in her main relationship appear to be rather demanding on her and secondly, more connected at the emotional level . This divide is kinda tearing her apart. What actually keep her going is a small little support that she has. Otherwise might have lead to depression or death.

mum health seem to be on the weak side, and in her (mom) prime, she seem to have other focus rather than spending time with her. at the same time, , her dad seem distanced in the family as well (on chart). kindly verify.

sadly put it (my heart goes out to her as I’m saying this) her chart, her persona is not bad, its the entire 2 decade of wealth luck that spur (attracts) the indirect officer(s) in her life. that is why i mentioned the multiple relationship.

she would have to settle or dissolve what is existing before she could move on. If this is her choice, better to dissolve before 2017. as 2017 seem more woes with water dissipating. basically, legal matters as well as gossips to extend of possible defamation; and (if mum is still around) 2017 could weaken further in areas of her mum health.

its too short a time to dissolve whatever matters in her current relationship before 2017 (since now is already ending 2016). whatever it is, stay close to her, give her the emotional support, embrace faith and religion. Offer alms and build habit of prayers. it helps.

Compatibility wise. . . her weak chart is demanding on her when authority is overpowering. your chart tell me you are an understanding person, your authority is that of meek yet firm. so, i say its compatible, do cautious that after what she been thru’ ~ just worried that she would close her heart before you can go in.

i see if there is any more i can add ~ in the meantime that all I can see. let me know if you have question(s).

take care.   ^^

Please help with my son’s chart (FiveArts)

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This chart is almost 5 wood vs 1 metal. in this instance, wood and metal  may cause some health issue. wood relates to liver, gallbladder and metal relates to lungs and respiratory areas. This 2 areas as a infant must take note (i.e sinusitis and bronchitis).

Character should be competitive yet not aggressive, pragmatic yet reasonable. Astute and manages wealth well. Problem solver.  A person with fine qualities. Bold, straight forward, single minded and goal focus. They look tough on the outside but actually loving and nurturing to other on the inside. The Xin metal and Shen metal is in a good place. this metal element must not be injure. In another words, got potential for management / manager role in the future.

Need Hellp in Reading my Chart (FiveArts)

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Your DM is strong. You should try out the role of a recruiter. Its a Humanities role ~ wood nature, yet required areas of sales pitch which is water nature. And you may choose to focus on specific industry such as financial, civil services or engineering which can be metal in nature. And because of your psychology background you able to harness attribute of candidates better that those untrained in psychology studies.

Car accident this morning. Help me understand my bazi luck (FiveArts)

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Thank you very much Jovan @j27945 for pointing out some things I should look out for in the coming Bing Shen month of August. 

I did notice that when I was following a discussion on FuYin and FanYin last year and even made a note of it (reply#2)  

  What I read was that when FuYin comes, it doubles the effect of whatever elements there are in the pillar. 

Based on what you wrote  about the potential 伤病灾, Bing Shen works unfavorably for my chart? I would like to learn more, if you can explain to me please.

Also if the year and the month is FuYin as in coming Aug, is the effect tripled?

“丙申。火动,金怒 比克木” haha I understand half of this ie in Bing Shen period, Fire is active and Metal is angry (and agitated?) but what does 比克木 mean? Being Geng metal DM, does that mean I should try not to react to provocation and to control my temper/emotional response?

Unfavourable in this luck cycle due to 寅 运 and this year 丙申. The nature of 火 是克金。金 是克木。when fire is enlarge in this year. Especially same word, 火动。it then 克金。可不经,金怒 will 可木。the 木 in your chart only outlet is 寅。 internal to 寅 is 甲丙戊。that why I cautious of 病。because its 阳克阳,有如冲。 I cautious on 祸, and its 金 started is deduce machinery. What’s the op about ? Must it be done this year ? 

Rest enough is probably the easiest to mitigate 丙火 effect on 金。temperament and head strong is prob your personality for many year,  hard to change also. Just try to keep cool in situation slow down to re think alternative this year . 

The fact that we now know of August, means you have change the 时空点 。

TCM Nutrition – Five Element Theory – TCM Theory

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  • Brown Rice – increases qi, strengthens spleen
  • Navy Beans – sweet flavor, benefits the lungs and spleen (both aspects of the metal element)
  • Almonds – relieve stagnant qi of the lungs, transform phlegm
  • Mustard Greens – influence lungs, clear chest congestion, improve energy circulation
  • Onions – resolves phlegm and inflammations of the upper respiratory system
  • Radish – transforms phlegm
  • Pear – affects the lungs, eliminates phlegm
  • Avoid – dairy (which may add mucus/phlegm), meat (which may weaken the spleen) and sweeteners (which may weaken the spleen and contribute to dampness)

Negative Output, Eating God and Hurting Officer (FiveArts)

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Don’t need to be overly worry, for his case its a (命好不如运好), his lucky pillar generally are useful God to him. He should Excel in his career and studies.

Health wise, should note areas like mental calmness, sufficient sleep, eye right, hair and if he drinks liver, stomach and skin.

Personality wise, learn to hold back comments. In any topic seek depth rather than breathe.

TRIANGLE LOVE. Help me. An affair Love (FiveArts)

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i’ll look into this ‘affair’ bazi. so…. based on 14 may  91, 9.05am . this chart present itself a a mild/ meek personality, can be elusive some time because the day master (wood) is not strongly rooted. good & smooth qi flow ( (fire -> earth -> metal -> water -> wood) among the element in chart, i believe the girl has  good relationship (doted by) between parents, elders and enjoy support from peers and mentors in her study years and working life. Is likely to be the only child or eldest in the family. wealth in the chart come from the person’s ability /  talent / work. the relationship between ~ talent and wealth is favourable. If the chart (karma) is true;  in her lifetime she is deserving of  a good boyfriend / husband. On career and family, which can be a juggle  later in her life as she should do well in career.

Wowww! you are right! she is elusive and she really has a good relationship with her mentor and parents. Her mentor always like her and give her a good score. And yes she get money from her ability in designing a room/house. because architect is her occupation.

But she is not only child in her family. she has one older sister.

is this an unique chart? (FiveArts)

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There is a reason I need to look at your chart. first,  her chart look fine. as it she should be a fine lady. gentle. meticulous as well as talented, and possibily gifted in speech. Is she in the legal / compliance industry. luck cycle always been on her side.

Childhood wise, closer to her father. I need to ask if anything has happen to her mother. In her teen and adulthood, helps from peers n colleagues. Because of her pragmatic feel in her chart, I think… Most of the time, problem get solved and can consider smooth sailing. She should be more focus on her career than settling down with kids. Realistically speaking, Given her age, 33yo. you don’t have much time to woo her and settle down and baby plans.

In 2043, Gui Hai year, she is on Geng Shen Luck, I afraid that they may a nasty arguement (this is why I need your chart to validate this against) If this info is not in your chart, it likely indicate as legal dispute, fines, bad investment or health ailment that relates to water (i.e. woman’s ailment, blood circulation, urinal/ bowel related & lower limbs).

Omg dear sir, you must be a physic O.O

she is a senior consultant in a law firm. her mother is currently sick, kidney failure and needed a kidney transplant.

you are absolutely right, she said she has many helpful people in her life whenever she is in trouble.

yes she has been extremely focussed and driven in her career, thats why she is unable to settle down till now, but she said she is willing to compromise and hope to settle down.

Reading for a dear friend (FiveArts)

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So true! A so-called friend of his ran off with a lot of money after a joint venture last year. He’s been suffering losses for about half his life up till now even. And yes, he continues to make the same mistakes over and over even after being advised time and time again. He’s a good man which is why I’d like to help him out if it’s possible.

Bazi Reading (FiveArts)

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first, his chart is not strong. and flag with 2 wealth star. typically, this type of chart my first advise would be the person need to sit down are really go thru what he wants to achieve in his career or life directions. Cannot go around chasing dreams or his dreams will remain in dream.

2nd, the fire and water clash relates to heart, blood, rest and mental issues. water is his wealth and fire is his resource. both are needed and essential to him. The remedy is to make use of wood. Green, East, North East, Accountancy, educational, medical services, publication industry or even biotechnology / horticulture research.

3rd, caffeine and alcohol must be avoided. Fire already not good. Likelihood of high blood and cholesterol, as well as headache. If go for morning exercises, go between 5 to 7. Slow down and pick up meditate or if have religion, to spend time in it.

Useful God, 丙丁寅卯。moving forward generally feel is  40 to 59, 丙丁 to help. But 寅卯 is absence. That where you need to manually supplement wood element into his life. And prevent a water fire clash. In 60 onwards is 比劫 luck. Avoid joint venture.

To be honest and manage perceptions, 丙申 2016,丁亥 2017,己亥 2019,庚子 2020。all this increase water element in his chart, you need to pay attention to his health, rest and avoid risk. For children and offspring, I like to say better let nature takes it course, as it depends on affinity between the 2 of you and the child.

Ren Daymaster here would like a reading (FiveArts)

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A very brilliant reading you have done for me. You are right, a big part of my internals struggles can be attributed to my parents. They are actually very loving parents but I guess a bad business decision my dad made years ago lead to where I am now. Not that I want to blame him, but I guess I feel like I have to do more for this family to help out. I also hold a small grudge against a sibling of mine who I may at times feel is sabotaging my progress in life.. or at least how I may of planned it.

I’m not exactly struggling with moving to another country, its not something that is planned out yet just random thoughts at times of wanting to move. Lets just say I was born in HK, grew up overseas and few years back, while my life was in real turmoil, I decided to move to HK after graduation to look for a career. But now I do have thoughts of wanting to go back to Canada, and I sort of feel that is the case because of wanting to escape a huge burden.

I will take your advice on the metal thing, maybe it is time for me to get a watch. Although I always told myself that the only way I’ll wear a watch is when one day I become successful and afford something high end.

Bazi has gotten me fascinated, does wu fire under my DM and xin metal beside it represent anything tangible that is part of my life (parents? wife? sibling?). Also it seems earth weakens water (my day master), am I correct? What impact do they have on me? Are they superiors (boss, senior colleagues) in my life ?