4 Pillars (四柱命理), Metaphysics (易学)

About Hurts and Healing

If we have truly done what we believe as best effort in the moment; then there can’t be anything any better.

In BaZi (八字) destiny consultation, practitioners wears the hat of emotional rubbish bin or recycling truck. Often needs to lend a listening ear to Querent’s woes and feelings. Helping people reconcile with the hurts of life, provide resolution and help Querent to move forward. This in 1 paragraph; sharing my 2 cents worth. I hope this experience helps fellow practitioners frame and anchor these 3 reality, so that the wound now becomes the place where the light gets in.

“The hurts of our lives are link to the perception of the hurt. The person we blame for the hurt did what they need to do in their life. And, the only way for us to be hurt is for us to compare the moment of the hurt to another moment in our lives. When the moment is all there is, and there is no past nor future we can compare with, this moment is all it is and feels very different and loses its hold against us. Therefore, emotions are closely link with the expectation and attachment of our past.”

4 Pillars (四柱命理)

60 JiaZi TaiSui (六十甲子太岁): A different perspective regarding Grand Duke of Jupiter

The 60 JiaZi (甲子) is one of the earliest and ingenious invention of the Chinese Culture. Its purpose is to record years, months, days and hours. And in the course of civilization, these 60 JiaZi (甲子) took on a beautiful spiritual veil known as TaiSui (太岁).

TaiSui (太岁) is a God enshrined by the people, and according to folklore everyone is guarded or protected by their own TaiSui (typically based on birth year). There is also another metaphor known as 12 deity of TaiSui ( 太岁十二神).

Instead of using the annual TaiSui (太岁) to check if a particular zodiac has energy clashes and harms. Why not, use our day pillar (日主) to check the 60 JiaZi (甲子) and see which TaiSui (太岁) we are in sync with or who is “looking after” us. Google these TaiSui (太岁), read up and understand their history, what are their strengths, virtues and characters attributes which we could adopt and incorporate into our daily lives.

Expand this metaphor a little further using all 4 pillars, we might have 4 different mode of TaiSui (太岁) to learn from with regards to each aspect of our environment. It could be well ranges from righteousness to humility. Instead of praying to TaiSui (太岁), perhaps its time we start learning from TaiSui (太岁). Let’s enjoy this little exploration.

1, Year embodies externalities, government, authority, social relationship, superiors, bosses, grandparents, uncle’s, aunties, in-laws and parents.
2, Month encapsulate work environment, colleagues, peers, friends and siblings relationship.s
3, Day focus on family environment, spouse relationship. It also includes self as well as personal values.
4,Hours deals with personal aspirations, dreams hopes and fear. It also encompasses offsprings and children relationship or matters.

60 JiaZi TaiSui (六十甲子太岁)
1、甲子太岁金辨大将军 海中金
2、乙丑太岁陈材大将军 海中金
3、丙寅太岁耿章大将军 炉中火
4、丁卯太岁沈兴大将军 炉中火
5、戊辰太岁赵达大将军 大林木
6、已巳太岁郭灿大将军 大林木
7、庚午太岁王济大将军 路旁土
8、辛未太岁李素大将军 路旁土
9、壬申太岁刘旺大将军 剑峰金
10、癸酉太岁康志大将军 剑峰金
11、甲戌太岁施广大将军 山头火
12、乙亥太岁任保大将军 山头火
13、丙子太岁郭嘉大将军 涧下水
14、丁丑太岁汪文大将军 涧下水
15、戊寅太岁鲁先大将军 城墙土
16、已卯太岁龙仲大将军 城墙土
17、庚辰太岁董德大将军 白蜡金
18、辛巳太岁郑但大将军 白蜡金
19、壬午太岁陆明大将军 杨柳木
20、癸未太岁魏仁大将军 杨柳木
21、甲申太岁方杰大将军 泉中水
22、乙酉太岁蒋崇大将军 泉中水
23、丙戌太岁白敏大将军 屋上土
24、丁亥太岁封济大将军 屋上土
25、戊子太岁邹铛大将军 霹雳火
26、已丑太岁傅佑大将军 霹雳火
27、庚寅太岁邬桓大将军 松柏木
28、辛卯太岁范宁大将军 松柏木
29、壬辰太岁彭泰大将军 长流水
30、癸巳太岁徐单大将军 长流水
31、甲午太岁章词大将军 沙中金
32、乙未太岁杨仙大将军 沙中金
33、丙申太岁管仲大将军 山下火
34、丁酉太岁唐杰大将军 山下火
35、戊戌太岁姜武大将军 平地木
36、已亥太岁谢太大将军 平地木
37、庚子太岁卢秘大将军 壁上土
38、辛丑太岁杨信大将军 壁上土
39、壬寅太岁贺谔大将军 金箔金
40、癸卯太岁皮时大将军 金箔金
41、甲辰太岁李诚大将军 佛灯火
42、乙巳太岁吴遂大将军 佛灯火
43、丙午太岁文哲大将军 天河水
44、丁未太岁缪丙大将军 天河水
45、戊申太岁徐浩大将军 大驿土
46、已酉太岁程宝大将军 大驿土
47、庚戌太岁倪秘大将军 钗钏金
48、辛亥太岁叶坚大将军 钗钏金
49、壬子太岁丘德大将军 桑松木
50、癸丑太岁朱得大将军 桑松木
51、甲寅太岁张朝大将军 大溪水
52、乙卯太岁万清大将军 大溪水
53、丙辰太岁辛亚大将军 沙中土
54、丁巳太岁杨彦大将军 沙中土
55、戊午太岁黎卿大将军 天上火
56、已未太岁傅党大将军 天上火
57、庚申太岁毛梓大将军 石榴木
58、辛酉太岁石政大将军 石榴木
59、壬戌太岁洪充大将军 大海水
60、癸亥太岁虞程大将军 大海水

4 Pillars (四柱命理)

6 Alternatives to Improve Karma

  1. Acceptance is all about understanding that each of us is fighting an inner battle of some kind Not judging people is an important first step to managing karma. As we haven’t walk in their shoes, we don’t really know what they have been through.

  2. Forgiveness relieves us from ‘the pain’. It takes an amazingly compassionate person to forgive. Forgiveness doesn’t mean we are happy with what was done to us; it means we have move forward in love. Great things and manifestation happens to those who forgive.

  3. Gratitude is important, those who are thankful are happy. Express gratitude daily and the universe rewards us with inner peace.

  4. Reflection is to understand the good and bad we see in others exists within us. Everything we see outwards is an inwards reflection of ourselves.

  5. Energy that we send out (to the universe) will one day somehow comes back. Therefore, those who radiate positive energy will receive it right back. Moods, Vibration and Luck will improve.

  6. Reaction is the way we respond to those around us. This will determines our karma. Nothing happens by chance, everything that happens to us is so that we can learn something from it.
4 Pillars (四柱命理), Metaphysics (易学)

Forgiveness

Forgiveness transformation anger and hurt to healing and peace. Set yourself free, improves health and raise vibrational energy, attract good luck.
1. Embrace the situation and release ourselves, don’t keep revisiting what has happen.
2. Switch from blaming others to understand ourselves.
3. Don’t go to sleep angry.
4. Stop acting fragile and keep looking for reasons to be offended.
5. Reduce conflicts by avoiding telling people what to do.
6. Happiness is our own responsibility.
7. Be kind instead of being right.
8. Practice giving.

4 Pillars (四柱命理)

八字喜忌 (BaZi Auspicious vs Inauspicious element)

八字命理所论的喜忌,简单来说有如一盘菜。不是名贵的菜最好吃而是自己爱吃的最好吃。

In BaZi destiny reading concept always talk about auspicious vs Inauspicious element. On the ground, in our everyday life, what this means can draw analogy of one’s favorite food. It not the expensive meal or restaurant that taste the best, it what one’s loves that taste the best.

4 Pillars (四柱命理), Date Selection (擇日), Flying Stars (玄空飛星風水), Metaphysics (易学), Plum Blossom Divination (梅花易数), QMDJ (奇門遁甲)

10 Universal Law ( 10 大天规 )

01,流水不争先
02,嗜欲深者天机浅
03,君子乐天知命
04,人有千算,天则一算
05,人情世态,不宜太真
06,直木先伐,甘井先竭
07,中和为福,偏激为灾
08,少事为福,多心招祸
09,真不离幻,雅不离俗
10,两年学说话,一辈子学闭嘴

4 Pillars (四柱命理), Date Selection (擇日)

流年12神煞解说

1、太岁有压众煞的功能,岁运逢之,凶多吉少,主有不测之灾,宜向太岁作福。

2、太阳吉星照,求财遇珍宝,阴阳有和合,定感福来保。太阳主光明化吉,以礼待人,聪明勤勉,有喜事降临。

3、丧门最为凶,孝服重重逢,破财并外孝,浓血见灾迎。主有死丧哭泣、孝服或凶灾,盗贼遗亡,刑耗,尤其小孩怕见丧车。

4、太阴入命来,添喜又进财,贵人相接引,耕作遇财丰。

5、官符入命凶,口舌官司重,破财廉外孝,作福祷苍穷。主易遇小人,如斤斤计较,必闹至官非,择友要谨慎,要拜小人作福。

6、死符入命来,孝服重重逢,父母妻儿克,作福免灾殃。主有突来之灾,如官刑、疾病、争闹、破财等。要小心跳过水沟,宜绕道而行。

7、岁破是冲破太岁之义,主破耗财物及家长多灾应在半年内。

8、月德主大人之德,谓龙德,因施政或德政蒙利,并主百事逢凶化吉。

9、白虎叫涯涯,人丁损血财,牛事才过去,马事又进来。主有丧服之灾、破财、车祸,残伤,血光之灾,有化解则轻,无化解,大凶。

10、福德入命游,年月进四牛,添户并进口,财喜两全周。主吉利,喜庆,吉人天相,有天助之美,到处无不逢凶化吉,大功告成。

11、吊客入命凶,内外孝服逢,官灾并浓血,小口多遭迍。主凭吊孝服、凶灾之事,疾病哀哭泣、盗贼、骨肉灾、外服等。

12、病符入命凶,孝服重重逢,父服有刑克,作福免灾殃。主一病甚久,在一年或数月,忌见丧车或吃丧喜物,吊祭可解。

4 Pillars (四柱命理), Date Selection (擇日)

流年12神排法

— 子鼠˙丑牛˙寅虎˙卯兔˙辰龍˙巳蛇˙午馬˙未羊˙申猴˙酉雞˙戌狗˙亥豬
— 太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽
— 太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門
— 喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰
— 太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼
— 五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符
— 死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破
— 歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德
— 龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎
— 白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗˙福德
— 福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符˙天狗
— 天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲˙病符
— 病符˙天狗˙福德˙白虎˙龍德˙歲破˙死符˙五鬼˙太陰˙喪門˙太陽˙太歲

4 Pillars (四柱命理), Date Selection (擇日)

流年12神煞口诀

十二支牚定命宫,改为年支逆推行;
逆推流年在何宫,再从年支把一兴。
顺数直到流年位,几数星宫数吉凶;
流年地支有三合,三合三支把事应。
命运流年综合断,确定有灾才能用。

太岁伏尸剑锋星,意外事故多发生。
少惹是非少近官,闭门不出忍修性。

二是天空太阳星,贵人到位免灾行;
出门办事有人帮,即便有险贵人冲。

三是丧门与地丧,孝服小灾当年中;
倘若家中无内孝,外孝也得去奉行。

四是勾绞贯索星,平常度日无灾生;
男怕太阴生口舌,女遇太阳喜事生。

五鬼官符陌越位,牢狱官司难变更;
平地是非官司起,暗地有人把你整。

六是小耗死符星,损物破财数已定;
谨防小人生祸端,遇事要把贵人请。

七是栏干并岁破,但行好事贵人通;
大耗破财防水火,防人拐骗把病生。

八是暴败天煞临,口舌小福有虚惊;
龙德紫微能相照,增人进口喜事逢。

九是飞廉并白虎,血光横祸孝服用;
不是内丧必外孝。不然天天把病生。

十是卷舌福德星,小有口舌不用惊;
天德福星贵人助,求名求利必顺风。

十一天狗及吊客,克儿克女有灾星;
不是守丧便守病,必防亲人不太平。

十二病符吞陷星,大病小病总有痛;
天灾人祸办事难,一天到晚无笑容。