Depend on external to your chart or natal. It can clash you as well as combine. Good guys also can do bad things in life.
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In my opinion, first see bazi or zwds see if year/ month is ok or bad before you proceed with date selection. Once decided the date. Pray then cast a divinaiton to see ok to proceed or not. Its a macro to micro approach.